No good men. No good women. That’s the tune of those still looking for love. But perhaps the problem lies more in one’s expectations. Perfection is hard to live up to. “But I’m not REALLY looking for perfection.” Maybe I am and DON’T REALIZE IT. Not perfection in all things, but perfection in the most important qualification you look for in a partner.
Romantic relationships will always have relationship issues no matter HOW WANT you want it to be perfect. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship since people do make mistakes. However, it is not impossible to achieve a solid relationship but one thing you cannot avoid to have is relationship issues. Fights, arguments and disagreements will always occur along the way or even when you least expect it.
“Nobody is perfect so therefore there is no any perfect relationship.”
Perfect relationships do not exist, even if we invest the time, and energy we still cannot achieve them. But Mr. or Mrs. Right does not just materialize out of thin air. Like wine, people mature and evolve into something more beautiful.
I already thought to myself, “I’ve finally met Ms. Right!” She’s pretty, sexy and intelligent. She’s sweet and kind: she doesn’t come on too strong, but she’s passionate enough to keep me turned on. She always keeps my motor running and we have “CHEMISTRY”!
We all at one point dreamt about being swept off of our feet, by the most attractive person we have ever seen. Then we fantasize about the wedding, the kids, the house, the life we are going to have together, all in a couple of minutes, and then we come back to reality!
Then one day things gradually start to change. She starts behaving the way that I hate. She doesn’t have enough time. She starts getting bored whenever we do have our date. She’s not even smiling when we are together. No longer does she listen to my small talk. In fact it appears she’s lost interest in our altogether.
So, what happened? What went wrong with my perfect relationship? The more questions you ask, the less answers you get.
But then on, even if I tried my best to work it out, I found myself raising a white flag. SURRENDER! I fall out of love. I can’t help myself but to feel that way.
But reality is, if we just work on our relationships to make them, and shape them, the way we want them to be, then there will be no any problem. Every individual has a different idea on what their relationship is going to look like, or feel like. A relationship that works for you, may, or may not be suitable or desired by others.
But still, even if I am thinking this way, I can’t apply it to myself. I easily fall in love and I easily fall out of love. I am the first one who give up. I didn’t give her any second chance. It’s my entire fault and I’m so sorry.
